Demiromantic Pride Flag
Identity Pride Flag ·
Vesper, posting as Queer as Cat, introduced this green Demiromantic flag on 8 March 2015 by adapting the chevron construction associated with the Demisexual flag, replacing purple with green so the design would carry a more visible connection to aromanticism. [1][2] Demiromantic describes someone for whom an emotional bond is required before romantic attraction can become possible, although forming a bond does not guarantee attraction. [3] Asked in 2017 whether they had made it, Vesper confirmed authorship while noting that "all i did was alter the colors of demisexual and gray (a)sexual flags". [2]

Key facts
- Designer
- Vesper
- Created
- First documented publication
- In use
- Documented from Vesper's March 2015 Tumblr posts, with later reproduction by Pride-Flags, community reference guides, and physical use at WorldPride NYC 2019
- Aspect Ratio
- 325:512 · apparent
- Ratio Notes
- Measured from Vesper's source PNG, which is 1024 by 650 pixels: a height-to-width ratio of 325:512, close to but not exactly 3:5. Pride-Flags' later rendering is 5000 by 3000, exactly 3:5. [4][5]
- Stripes
- 3
- Represented Identity
- demiromantic
Also known as
- Demiromantic Flag
Archive categories Sexual & Romantic Orientation Pride Flags
Overview
To give Demiromantic identity a flag whose color placed it visibly on the aromantic spectrum rather than reading as a demisexual variant. [1][6]
Vesper first posted an aromantic-spectrum flag set on 8 March 2015 in the blog's local date display, after a requester asked for a Demiromantic flag in their set of romantic-orientation flags. [6] About ten hours later they proposed replacing purple with green in the Demiromantic and Gray (a)romantic designs, writing that "in replacing the purple with green, there is a more visible connection to aromanticism", then updated the set to use the green versions. [1] The set's image files were revised in place, so the presently accessible set graphic already carries the green; no untouched copy of the purple treatment has been located.
Identity & Context
- Represented Identity
- demiromantic
- Subcommunity
- aro spectrum umbrella
Creators
The Creator
Vesper
Designer of the green Demiromantic revision and compiler of the March 2015 aromantic-spectrum flag set
Vesper posts as Queer as Cat on Tumblr, where they write on ace and aro community topics under the username queerascat and the pen name nighstar mayfair. In March 2015 they assembled an aromantic-spectrum pride flag set and designed the green Demiromantic revision. [6][1][7]
all i did was alter the colors of demisexual and gray (a)sexual flags [2]
Motivations
- A requester asked for a Demiromantic flag in Vesper's romantic-orientation set; Vesper assembled a separate aromantic-spectrum set instead. [6]
- The green revision: replacing purple so the Demiromantic and Gray (a)romantic designs would carry a more visible connection to aromanticism. [1]
Broader influences
Attribution notes
Vesper, posting as Queer as Cat on the Tumblr blog queerascat, assembled an aromantic-spectrum flag set in March 2015 and designed the green Demiromantic revision by replacing the purple in an earlier Demiromantic treatment with green. [6][1][7] The set post states that "none of the flag colors/designs are official in so far as i'm aware". [6] Asked directly in 2017 whether they created the flags, Vesper confirmed authorship while scoping it carefully: "all i did was alter the colors of demisexual and gray (a)sexual flags". [2] The Queer as Cat blog avatar is a cat graphic, not a photograph of the creator, and no portrait has been located.
Origin
- Digital Origin
- Yes
Digital origin; no verified physical location.
Created on Tumblr, on the queerascat blog. Both the aromantic-spectrum set post and the green revision post remain live. [6][1]
Dates & Chronology
- Year Created
- Exact date
- First documented publication
- Period in Use
- Documented from Vesper's March 2015 Tumblr posts, with later reproduction by Pride-Flags, community reference guides, and physical use at WorldPride NYC 2019
The set post gathered more than three thousand notes. [6] Pride-Flags published its own rendering on DeviantArt in July 2015, and community and institutional flag guides later reproduced the design. [5][8] Circulation outran attribution: in July 2017 a repost reading "I don't see the demiromantic flag nearly enough on this website, so here it is!" was gathering hundreds of notes with no creator named, and Vesper reblogged it with the tag "biting my tongue rn". [9] Weeks later, asked directly, they confirmed that they had made the 2015 flag while stressing its derivative construction. [2] Two photographs document physical use at Stonewall 50 and WorldPride NYC in Manhattan on 30 June 2019. [10][11]
Demiromantic is documented in AVEN forum profiles and discussions by 2008: a user profile in a May 2008 thread displays "Hetero-demiromantic asexual". [12] The individual who first coined the term has not been established by the sources reviewed. Demiromantic can combine with other romantic labels, as in demihomoromantic or demibiromantic, since demi describes the conditions under which attraction occurs rather than its direction, and it can coexist with any sexual orientation. [3]
Lineage
- Direct predecessors
- Demisexual Pride Flag
- Indirect influences
- Aromantic Pride Flag (Yellow Center, 2014)
- Related flags
- A-Spec Pride Flag, Abroromantic Pride Flag, Abrosexual Pride Flag, Mascromantic Pride Flag (2016, Designer Unknown), Androsexual Pride Flag, Aroflux Accessible Flag (2020)
+ 10 more
Aroflux Pride Flag, Aroflux Flag (Starri-Niqht, 2021), Asexual Pride Flag, Biromantic Pride Flag (Centered Heart, 2016), Ceteroromantic Pride Flag (Four-Stripe Heart, 2016), Frayromantic Five-Stripe Pride Flag, Fraysexual and Frayromantic Pride Flag (2014, pridearchive), Omniromantic Pride Flag, Panromantic Pride Flag, Polyromantic Pride Flag
The construction comes from the Demisexual flag: Vesper's own account of the design is that they altered the colors of the demisexual and gray (a)sexual flags. [2] The green comes from aromantic symbolism, and the Aromantic flag shown in Vesper's March 2015 set is the yellow-center 2014 design, whose green is the same value the revision adopted. [1][6] The Gray (a)romantic flag was revised in the same post and is this flag's closest sibling in the event. [1] Genderfluid and bigender comparisons do not arise here; the earlier purple Demiromantic treatment is known only through Vesper's revision statement, and no untouched file of it has been located.
Lineage tree
Every record reachable from this one through documented parent and child relationships: 3 records across 3 generations.
- Ancestors -2
- Asexual Pride Flag
- Ancestor
- Demisexual Pride Flag
- This record
- Demiromantic Pride Flag
Colors & Symbolism
The flag adapts the chevron construction associated with the Demisexual flag and replaces its purple with green. Vesper documented one design decision: "in replacing the purple with green, there is a more visible connection to aromanticism". [1][2]
| Colour | Hex | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Green center field | #339933 | Replaces the purple of the demisexual construction to create a more visible connection to aromanticism and the aromantic spectrum. This is the one design decision Vesper documented. [1] |
| Black triangle | #000000 | — |
| White upper field | #FFFFFF | — |
| Gray lower field | #D2D2D2 | — |
Dominant fill measured from Vesper's 1024 by 650 source PNG. [4]
This flag has no official digital palette. Color values shown are approximate.
Vesper assigned no separate meanings to the black, white and gray fields in the revision post; the only creator-issued rationale concerns the green. [1] Later guide interpretations circulate meanings for the other fields, the Pride Flag Wiki giving black for the sexuality spectrum, white for platonic and aesthetic attraction and Queerplatonic relationships, and gray for Grayromanticism and Demiromanticism; those readings import the symbolism of the Aromantic flag and are not creator statements. [8]
These values are measured from Vesper's 1024 by 650 source PNG, which is lossless and carries four flat fills with antialiasing only along the diagonal edges. The post does not provide a separate written color specification. [4][1] Later renderings that change a shade carry their own values and are recorded with the assets that use them.
Design
- Aspect Ratio
- 325:512 · apparent
- Ratio Notes
- Measured from Vesper's source PNG, which is 1024 by 650 pixels: a height-to-width ratio of 325:512, close to but not exactly 3:5. Pride-Flags' later rendering is 5000 by 3000, exactly 3:5. [4][5]
- Orientation
- horizontal
- Stripe Count
- 3
- Layout
- chevron_with_horizontal_stripes
- Stripes (Top → Bottom)
- White, Green, Gray
- Additional Symbols
- Black hoist triangle, a deep chevron
Three unequal horizontal fields crossed by a black hoist triangle. In the 1024 by 650 source PNG the white upper field runs from row 0 to row 270 and the gray lower field from row 379 to row 649, 271 pixels each or about 41.7 percent of the height, with the green center field of 108 pixels, about 16.6 percent, between them. The triangle rises from the full hoist edge to a point at roughly three-eighths of the width at the vertical midpoint. [4]
Horizontal fields: 3 (white, green, gray). Hoist device: 1 black triangle. [4]
A black triangle occupies the hoist, its apex reaching about three-eighths of the way across the flag at mid-height. Behind it run three horizontal fields: a broad white field above, a narrow green field at the center, and a broad gray field below. [4]
Usage & Adoption
- Online Usage
- Tumblr: the live set post, revision post and 2017 creatorship answer on the creator's blog [6][1][2], DeviantArt: the Pride-Flags rendering of July 2015 [5], Wikimedia Commons and community reference guides [13][8]
- Event Usage
- Stonewall 50 and WorldPride NYC, Manhattan, 30 June 2019, documented in two photographs [10][11]
- Current Status
- active
Documented circulation runs from the March 2015 posts, which gathered more than three thousand notes, through the July 2015 Pride-Flags rendering, the 2017 unattributed reposts, and later reference guides, to photographed physical use in June 2019. [6][5][9][10]
Image Archive
Original Artwork


Companion Media

Later Renderings

Discourse & Debates
- The flag's 2017 popularization ran ahead of its attribution: reposts presenting it without a creator gathered hundreds of notes, and Vesper reblogged one with the tag "biting my tongue rn" before the authorship question was put to them directly. [9][2]
Common misidentifications
- The Demiromantic and Demisexual flags share the same chevron construction; the visual difference is the green center field rather than purple, which Vesper introduced to make the aromantic-spectrum connection more visible. [1][2]
Demiromantic sits within the grayromantic umbrella, which covers experiences between aromanticism and alloromanticism. [3] The prefix demi- reaches English through French from Latin; it marks a conditional experience rather than a mathematical midpoint.
Footnotes & Citations
Sources and footnotes 13 sources
- 1. Social media Demiromantic and Gray (a)romantic Flags (green revision post). queerascat (Vesper). queerascat, Tumblr (2015-03-08). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 2. Social media Creatorship question and answer on the revision post. queerascat (Vesper). queerascat, Tumblr (2017-08). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 3. Encyclopedias & Reference Demiromantic. LGBTQIA+ Wiki. Accessed 2026-08-15
- 4. Image file page Demiromantic flag source PNG, 1024 by 650 (revision post media). queerascat (Vesper). Tumblr CDN (2015-03-08). Accessed 2026-08-15 · Archived version
- 5. Image file page Demiromantic (Pride-Flags rendering). Pride-Flags. DeviantArt (2015-07-05). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 6. Social media someone requested that i add a demiromantic pride flag (aromantic-spectrum set post). queerascat (Vesper). queerascat, Tumblr (2015-03-08). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 7. Social media About page, Queer as Cat. queerascat (Vesper). queerascat, Tumblr. Accessed 2026-08-15
- 8. Encyclopedias & Reference Demiromantic (later guide interpretations of the colors). Pride Flag Wiki (Fandom). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 9. Social media I don't see the demiromantic flag nearly enough (circulation post, creator-reblogged). a-polite-melody; reblog by queerascat (Vesper). Tumblr (2017-07). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 10. Image file page File:NYC Pride 2019 76.jpg. Bohemian Baltimore. Wikimedia Commons (2019-06-30). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 11. Image file page File:NYC Pride 2019 77.jpg. Bohemian Baltimore. Wikimedia Commons (2019-06-30). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 12. Community do you find people sexy? (thread carrying a Hetero-demiromantic asexual profile line). Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) (2008-05-03). Accessed 2026-08-15
- 13. Image file page File:Demiromantic Flag.jpg. Wikimedia Commons (2023-05-21). Accessed 2026-08-15
Image Sources
- Rendering
- Vesper 2015 green revision
- The green Demiromantic flag from Vesper's revision post, 8 March 2015 · Credit: Vesper (Queer as Cat) · Tumblr · verifiedRights No explicit reuse license located
- Vesper's source file from the 8 March 2015 revision post, 1024 by 650 pixels, the primary historical artifact and this entry's hero image. [1][4] · Credit: Vesper (Queer as Cat) · Tumblr CDN, revision post media · No explicit reuse license located
- The Gray (a)romantic flag revised in the same post and by the same decision to replace purple with green. A companion design, not an alternate Demiromantic flag. [1] · Credit: Vesper (Queer as Cat) · Tumblr CDN, revision post media · No explicit reuse license located
- The Demiromantic graphic from the aromantic-spectrum set post, with heart and text overlay. The set's files were revised in place after the green proposal, so the accessible version already carries the green. [6][1] · Credit: Vesper (Queer as Cat) · Tumblr CDN, set post media · No explicit reuse license located
- Pride-Flags' rendering, 5000 by 3000 pixels, published on DeviantArt on 5 July 2015 at 21:56:39 PDT; the page displays 5 July and Wikimedia Commons records the same date for the design. The rendering is exactly 3:5, unlike Vesper's source file. [5][13] · Credit: Pride-Flags (DeviantArt); underlying design by Vesper (Queer as Cat) · DeviantArt · CC BY 3.0 per the DeviantArt page
- The vector reconstruction drawn for this archive, rebuilt on 15 August 2026 to the source file's 1024 by 650 basis, field heights and measured colors. A reconstruction, not a creator file. [4] · Credit: Encycloflaggia reconstruction · Encycloflaggia · No ownership claimed over the underlying design